If you’ve never been in psychotherapy,
the idea can be a pretty scary one. Revealing ourselves and our problems can seem
so intimidating that we may think we’d rather just have the problems. Taking
your child to psychotherapy is even scarier--
what will they do when I’m not there? What will they talk about? Will
they say the problems are all my fault? Will my child learn to disrespect me?
Will the therapist work against our family values? Parents may have to feel pretty
desperate before they are ready to face some of the possible answers to these
questions!
When people start
talking about evidence-based therapies, that can be scary too. The term just
means that these treatments have been systematically tested and shown to give
good results, but many parents are not sure what’s evidence-based and what isn’t,
or how these “scientific” methods look different from any other kind of
treatment. (Maybe they even involve electric shock, some may fear.)
Fortunately, you can now
have a good look at what happens in some evidence-based treatments for
children, thanks to Dr. Cynthia Hartung of the University of Wyoming and her
graduate students. They have made a
series of youtube presentations that describe and give examples of treatments
for certain childhood problems—I found these not only informative but quite fun
to watch. You will enjoy watching them yourselves, but I will give a little
summary about each.
1. Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy for Adolescent Depression
by Brooke Merrow &
Kendal Binion
This presentation gives
an excellent discussion of the basic ideas of cognitive-behavioral therapy
(CBT). This treatment is based on the very real links between thoughts, feelings,
and behaviors. Changing the way people think about situations or people
(including themselves) can change the feelings they have, and that in turn can
change their behavior. Or things can work the other way around-- if behavior can be changed, the result can be
that people think and feel differently about some aspects of their lives.
Depressed behavior (like staying in bed all day) can create negative feelings
and subsequent negative thoughts about the world, for example, and changing
that behavior can give someone a chance to experience better feelings and more
positive thoughts.
2. Coping Cat to Treat
Anxiety in Children and Adolescents
by Andrea Slosser &
Shira Kern
This presentation discusses
treatment for the debilitating anxiety some children and adolescents
experience, anxiety that interferes with many of their normal behaviors and
experiences. It affects school performance, sports, friendships, and family
relationships. An important point is that children’s anxiety may not be shown
by restlessness or a fearful expression as we might expect, but instead may show
up as irritability. Sleep problems may also occur and are likely to make
parents more irritable too, as their sleep is disturbed by the child’s
disturbance.
3. Parent Management
Training for Childhood Behavior Problems
by Adam Ripley &
Alejandra Reyna
This presentation focuses
on way parents can learn to help children whose behavior is hyperactive,
oppositional, or aggressive. These children may have been diagnosed as having
Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
(ADHD), or Conduct Disorder. The point of parent management training is not to
blame parents or say they have caused a child’s problems, but to call to their
attention how they can respond to the child’s behavior in ways that can make “good”
behavior more likely.
The basic idea is that
under certain circumstances (antecedents), an unwanted behavior may occur. The
consequences or results that follow that behavior will help to determine
whether the behavior will happen again if the same antecedents are present (for
instance, a child being teased or frustrated). To help decrease unwanted
behaviors and increase wanted ones, parents need to follow the wanted behaviors
by a positive reinforcement. (The video gives an excellent discussion of
rewards and punishments.) Methods like time-out try to ensure that children are
not accidentally rewarded for unwanted behaviors.
Of course, for any of
this to work, the child must be able to do what is wanted, or to stop doing
what is unwanted.
4. What is
Trauma-Focused CBT for Children & Adolescents?
by Kati Lear & Sarah
Steinmetz
This treatment is aimed
at reducing the distress and anxiety children and families experience after a
child has been exposed to trauma-- an
incident in which there is extreme fear and helplessness. A recent example of
such a traumatizing event is the experience of the Cincinnatti family whose
three-year-old slipped into the gorilla pit at the zoo during the Memorial Day
weekend of 2016. A child who experiences a very frightening event may later
have “flashback” memories as if re-experiencing the incident, may have family
and other relationship problems and emotional outbursts along with difficulty
in obeying rules, and these problems may last over some time, with impact on
the family members’ states of mind and ability to help the child. The treatment
helps child and parents identify and talk about the emotions connected with the
event and eventually become able to talk to each other calmly about what
happened.
I hope that readers who are concerned about
child emotional problems and who are hoping for effective treatment will look
at these videos (thanks, Dr. Hartung and students!) and will also have a look
at www.effectivetherapy.com for
further discussion of evidence-based treatments for children. Do note that
these treatments are not a matter of interminable psychotherapy-- generally, they involve fewer than 20 sessions,
once a week.
Which fits in well with Better Access to Psychology which is usually 10 sessions for adults and adolescents - in the Australian federal context. This is part of Medicare.
ReplyDelete"Taking your child to psychotherapy is even scarier-- what will they do when I’m not there? What will they talk about? Will they say the problems are all my fault? Will my child learn to disrespect me? Will the therapist work against our family values?"
Especially the last three questions.
As simple as it seems - trust.
I do not know that children will generally say "all [their] fault" unless they are pushed into it/genuinely feel it/had the idea from someone else who has an adversarial relationship or ambivalent relationship with the parent/has something to gain from it.
We will be very interested in Trauma-Focused CBT.
A good book I have read is M Grace Baron's STRESS AND COPING which was written in the 2000s. There are Grandin's, Jessy Park's and a chapter on bereavement in developmental disability.
"Hoping for effective treatment". Concern and hope are two powerful motivators.