Hello readers-- I am starting a new post for responses to http://childmyths.blogspot.com/2011/07/eye-contact-with-babies-what-when-why.html.
AND-- I'm so sorry but I cannot make this query and response line up properly with the margins! It looks okay to me, but when I publish it's out of line. I hope people can figure out what this reader and I were talking about. When I have time I will retype the whole thing, which may be the only solution... no, wait! Problem solved-- I managed to post this as a comment.