At http://www.facebook.com/ReactiveAttachmentDisorderCommunity,
some people are incensed by the fact that “someone” has said that the diagnosis
of Reactive Attachment Disorder does not include symptoms like violent
behavior. They say that anyone who says that ought to see what their kids can
do.
But, as Lyndon Johnson and the Bible used to say, “Come,
let us reason together.” No doubt their children are violent, as reported. If
they aren’t, well, some children assuredly are. No one has said that children
aren’t ever violent, just that violence is not one of the symptoms of Reactive
Attachment Disorder.
So, we have kids whose violence has been reported,
and those are also kids who have been said (by somebody) to have Reactive
Attachment Disorder. Suppose one of those things is not true? Which is it more
likely to be-- that they aren’t really
violent? No, it would be a bit too conspiracy-theory to imagine that a group of
parents have invented this report. What about the alternative—that they don’t actually
have Reactive Attachment Disorder, or, if they have it, they have some other
serious problems as well? Those problems could be other diagnostic categories
that haven’t been stated or mentioned, or of course the problems could result
from various difficulties of one or more other people in the household, as
family therapists have told us over and over.
Not knowing the families, I am not about to say
whether violence may reflect family problems. Knowing how the Internet has presented
Reactive Attachment Disorder, however, I am prepared to say that a diagnosis
that is based on one of the many “checklists” (like the one at www.attach.org) is not going to be an accurate
statement about the presence or absence of that specific disorder. And I’d like to put in a request: before
people fulminate about whether their beliefs about violence and RAD have been
attacked, they should get a complete assessment done by a licensed clinical
psychologist, with a doctoral degree in clinical psychology from an accredited
university, and by a physician with some training in behavioral issues. Do
those practitioners diagnose Reactive Attachment Disorder, or was the diagnosis
done by the parent using a checklist, or by a “registered attachment therapist”
with no training in any other aspect of childhood emotional disturbance? If the
latter, I would suggest, folks, that you re-think what you’re dealing with. An assessment, by the way, doesn’t stop with a
diagnosis, but describes specific problems that need help.
To go on with this issue, let me point out that only
your health insurer really cares what name you give a disorder. Treatment
focuses on what symptoms are shown, and within some limits that treatment will
be the same no matter what DSM code is written on the bill.
A lot of people have gotten the idea that if a child
has had a poor care history—is post-institutional, for example-- that’s all the evidence needed for a
diagnosis of Reactive Attachment Disorder. As I’ve pointed out in other posts,
the work of Michael Rutter and the English-Romanian Adoptees study group has
shown that most children adopted from really awful orphanages do very well. The
biggest general problem in the early years is delayed language
development. An American group has shown
that improving orphanage conditions improves child outcomes (even though they’re
all still separated from their birth mothers, etc. etc.).
Writing in Infant
Mental Health Journal (2011, Vol. 32[2]), Christina Groark, Robin McCall,
and Larry Fish, in “Characteristics of Environments, Caregivers, and Children
in Three Central American Orphanages” have described both children and
experiences in those institutions. The
authors point out that children may have very different experiences in
orphanages, and that they may have had harmful experiences even before entering
the institution.
The characteristics of the orphanages give some
possible insight into children’s developmental difficulties and show us how
much more there is to think about than a simple diagnostic category. Most of
the wards had 8 to 12 children aged birth to 7 years (grouped by age), but in
one orphanage there was also one single room with about 50 infants and young
children, with each caregiver informally taking charge of a certain part of the
room. Child to caregiver ratios were from 8:1 to 12:1. Caregivers worked long
shifts—even 24 hours—and then had 1-3 days off. Children thus had little
opportunity to spend much time with any one caregiver, and there was little
time for a caregiver to get to understand each child well. Children also “graduated”
to a new ward periodically. As Groark and her colleagues put it, “while
caregivers were stably employed, they were not consistently present in the
lives of children, who tended to see new caregivers from a set of 6 to 9+ every
day or every other day, experience different substitute caregivers as needed,
and graduate to new wards.”
The children (mostly under 7 years of age) were
described as having “exceedingly low” behavioral development. They also showed
quite high rates of indiscriminate friendliness to a stranger and were
frequently noncompliant and provocative, and even interpersonally violent, but
unlike some other post-institutionalized children who have been described, they
did not show much impulsiveness, impatience, or frustration, or stereotyped or
withdrawn behavior.
It’s notable that this article did not use the term
Reactive Attachment Disorder or any other diagnosis of the children’s
characteristics, and it’s hard to see what good would come of anything other
than describing what the children were like. Groark’s work was not a study of
therapy, but it’s easy to see how helpful it would be for parents or therapists
to have specific information about child behavior rather than a diagnosis which
gives a general-- possibly
incorrect-- description, which may apply
much better to some children than to others. A diagnosis describes the disorder,
not the child, and when we come down to it, we treat, or adopt, children, not
disorders.
RE: “Mind That Diagnosis”
ReplyDeleteSince I cannot leave a comment less than 4,096 characters, and I'm not about to count them, please see my response to this at my blog http://www.facelessnation.org
~Tracey (15 years as a RAD mother/advocate)
Less than 4096... I have no idea what you mean.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't see any response on your blog, but I'm posting this and your URL so other readers can see what I'm getting at when I argue against unfounded claims about Reactive Attachment Disorder.
Great work Jean, please know that there are people like myself who appreciate you speaking up on behalf of misdiagnosed, mistreated children.
ReplyDeleteI know its not easy.
Thanks, Campbell-- but as you know it's not as hard as sitting by with gritted teeth while harmful nonsense is passed along.
ReplyDeleteI also adopted to girls with RADS who have turn my life upside down. No one believes you, DFS got involved the children are with a cousin and I am now fighting for my life. Please keep this network going.
ReplyDeleteI'm not at all sure that you read my post, Anonymous.
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