Well, I really thought I had made a couple of things
plain on this blog: 1) that although I am sure that intentional “parental
alienation” and manipulation of a child’s emotions toward a parent’s former
partner could be the cause of a child’s
avoidance of contact with one parent, this is far from the only explanation of the
child’s attitude (even when the child gives no “rational” explanation for
avoidance) and without a clear evidence basis no one has any business attributing
the child’s feelings and behavior to a parent’s influence; and 2) that persons
who attribute the child’s reluctance to problems of attachment, and who purport
to treat attachment difficulties when they propose removing a child from contact
with the preferred parent, do not understand the last 50 years of attachment
theory and research, but instead want to hitch a ride on the attachment-fad
bandwagon. (I have named Craig Childress specifically as making this latter
mistake, though there are quite a few others.)
But perhaps I was not as clear as I thought… or
perhaps PA advocates do not read as closely as they think they do. Some days
ago I received an email from one Sarah Beeler, who said the following:
Dear Mrs. Mercer
I have read this discussion online
between you and Dr. William Bernet: http://childmyths.blogspot.ch/2015/12/parental-alienation-advocates-cite-who.html?m=1
So I wanted to reach out to you to
ask for your support. We have a new model to solve PA, a model that wil help
millions of children and families around the world, it's called the attachment
based model of "parental alienation". This model is only using
established constructs and principles of professional psychology (no new
syndrome).
The APA unfortunately does not
realise that this is nothing new, they want to form a working group to research
what is already established psychology (see email below).
Ms. Beeler then continues
with many references to Craig Childress and his various claims to have shown
that “parental alienation” is associated with a blocking of the attachment
system [pretty much sic ] which is to
be corrected by forbidding the child to have contact with the preferred parent
(and thus his or her home and the rest of the family) and by psychoeducation in
the form of videos, etc. It appears that although she read the discussion I had
with William Bernet, but not everything else I said, nor the lengthy comments from
Childress fans that I posted, nor my responses to those lengthy comments.
Ms. Beeler’s assumption about
my position seems to have been based on the highly polarized views of Childress—that
he has the right answer to the postulated problem, and that anyone who
disagrees is against him—even those who also postulate PA and have their own
proposed treatments. In line with the idea that the enemy of my enemy is my
friend, she figures that if I disagreed with William Bernet (which I did), I
must therefore be willing to agree with Childress! I am sure Childress and his
various minions will be cross with Ms. Beeler, even though the sort of careless or intentional cherry-picking of
information she did is exactly like their own habit of making claims without
evidence.
Childress’ blog post,
quoted and linked by Ms. Beeler, states that APA should not appoint a task
force to consider evidence about PA and treatments, on the grounds that the
matter is urgent and that his methods and beliefs are “established psychology”.
Personally, I would suggest that the task force is not really necessary
(although it should be interesting), because the lack of evidence (i.e., “established
psychology”) on the topic is so striking. On the other hand, perhaps this is the time
for a task force of the type APSAC and APA Division 37 appointed some years ago
to look into the harm done by unconventional beliefs about and potentially harmful
treatments for attachment disorders (Chaffin et al, 2006). Those beliefs and
treatments were also without an adequate evidence basis, but they were being
used freely by various mental health practitioners, just as various PA ideas
are being put to work freely by a few practitioners and apparently quite a few
lawyers.
Urgent needs, even if
they exist, do not justify jumping to conclusions. Conclusions drawn on
inadequate grounds have every bit as much chance of exacerbating a problem and
harming families as they have of helping anyone. If Childress wants to
influence APA or most other psychologists, his job should be to stop the
theatricals and start doing the kind of serious research that could convince
others of his position if the results were what he predicts.
So many people over-rate their close reading abilities. When I am answering a quiz I seldom get more than 50%. Close reading and deep reading are two different things.
ReplyDeleteAnd when you urgently need to go to the toilet...
If he stopped the theatrics he would not have such an influential position and it is the theatrics that captures the audience that he is intending to capture. (desperate parents who are victims of DV by proxy and abusers looking to discredit child abuse allegations) Childress would rather spew hateful words to anyone who questions him and his theories rather than put in the actual credible research. But you already know this, sadly his followers simply do not care. It's very familiar to me, similar to Trumps supporters|voters. They simply do not care about facts and will claim anything that is a fact is "fake news". The times we are living in are quite frightening if you ask me.
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure the concept of "domestic violence by proxy" is really that different from "parental alienation" other than the supposed motive.
DeleteCould you elaborate on that?
DeleteBoth involve a parent trying to make a child turn against another parent; one alleges the motive is hatred of the parent (alienation) and one involves a desire to control an ex-partner after a relationship ends (domestic violence by proxy).
DeleteI will agree that Childress seems to have a concerning, one size fits all, framework.
Once again Lewis Caroll said it: "What I tell you three times is true!" And this rationale seems to work with those who want to believe.
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