I am writing this on an appropriate day in the
church calendar, Pentecost-- a day that
has connections to the topic of international adoption. What are the
connections? I think I’ll save that explanation until after I review Kathryn
Joyce’s new book.
The
Child Catchers is a serious piece of investigative
journalism, and as such follows a number of threads in its analysis of the
American enthusiasm for adoption in general and adoption from abroad in
particular. In the course of this analysis, Joyce reveals not only the
excellent intentions of adoptive families, but the corruption that easily
followed when the demand for adoptees grew and the supply of orphans did not.
Adoption, both domestic and international, has a
long history. For centuries, families have cared for children who were distantly
or not at all biologically related to
them, sometimes out of genuine love, sometimes with the intention of using the
child’s services, sometimes in order to insure an heir to family property or
position. In Western countries, adoption was formalized legally in the 19th
century and involved laws based on those governing property transfer. Those laws
guaranteed that a child could have parents but not two families, just as a
house cannot have two owners who are not joint owners.
This was the legal situation in the U.S. when in
1954 Harry and Bess Holt, evangelicals from Oregon, became aware of children in
Korea abandoned because they were biracial offspring of non-Korean soldiers.
The Holts, who adopted eight of those children themselves, encouraged and
facilitated large numbers of adoptions, stating their hope that all the
children would become born-again Christians and giving preference to
fundamentalist parent candidates. The Holts' efforts eventually gave rise to
Holt International Children’s Services, now a major adoption agency and one
respected for its ethical practices. As Joyce points out, however, the Holts
cut some corners and seemed unconcerned about some bad outcomes for children, as
well as accusing critics of being “anti-adoption”. The Holts’ attitudes, Joyce
says, began “a long-standing narrative of adoption as a battle between saviors
and obstructionists who think they know better”.
This battle intensified after the turn of the 21st
century as evangelical groups in the U.S. began to foster an “adoption theology”.
This approach stated an analogy between adoption of children and God’s
acceptance (“adoption”) of sinners as part of a divine family. Imitation of God’s
acceptance was seen as a Christ-like action and a critical part of a Christian
life. The adoption theme derived in part from two important tenets of American
religious fundamentalism. The first, the “Great Commission”, referred to the
obligation of Christians to spread their beliefs and seek converts, not just to
Christianity in general, but to Christianity as they themselves defined it.
This obligation for evangelism could be partly satisfied by adopting of
children whose birth families were not Christian fundamentalists, and bringing
up those children in the belief system of the adoptive family. A second tenet
came from the New Testament injunction to care for widows and orphans -- an injunction that was easily adapted to
stress caring for orphans by adopting them, rather than providing other kinds
of help to poor families. (Incidentally, such children could be counted as
orphans if they were without fathers, however many other relatives were caring
for them.) Some adoption proponents stated that the connection between a child
and an adoptive family had been created by God before the world began, and that
seeking the intended child was following divine law.
Evangelical groups declared that there were more
than 100 million orphans world-wide, and that their mission must be to bring
these children “home”. The picture painted by this statement was that there
were children simply waiting to be taken by adoptive families who would do the
work and spend the money to get them. This, of course, turned out not to be the
case. Many of the children being counted were in fact living with family
members who cared for them. In particular, there were few infants or toddlers,
the age group that many parent candidates would prefer to take. Some of the
children being counted were street children, some already involved in crime and
prostitution. Others were victims of disabilities that could not receive
effective treatment in their own countries, but who often had concerned
families. When children really had been abandoned, their health was sometimes
so poor as to make them unlikely choices for adoption, especially for U.S
parents without access to public health care programs.
As the demand for children encouraged by “adoption
theology” mounted, and the supply did not, the motivation for corruption
increased, and the Hague Convention and
UNICEF attempted to fight this tendency. Joyce describes in detail the problems
seen in Haiti following the earthquake, as American evangelical individuals or
groups tried to circumvent laws about taking children out of the country. In Ethiopia, a later popular adoption source,
difficulties and abuses arose because of communication problems. Like parents
in many other cultures, too, Ethiopians had a very different view of adoption
than that established in U.S. law, and neither the parents nor the children
necessarily expected the visit to the U.S. to be more than a few years in
length. Conflict and resistance to adoption to the U.S. soon developed. As
Joyce points out, cultural differences (and perhaps observation) insured that
Rwanda did not become “the next big thing” for adoption after Ethiopia.
The
Child Catchers focuses on evangelical influences in
international adoption because “adoption theology” codified and publicized an
act that had been a private family matter in the past. But Joyce does not
ignore other factors in the rise in international adoption. One of these was an
alteration in attitudes toward single mothers such that few who now give birth
in the U.S. relinquish their children for adoption. Changes in laws and
attitudes about abortion have also had complex effects on adoption; women who
do not terminate an unplanned pregnancy have usually chosen not only to have
but to keep the baby, and in addition anti-abortion religious groups have been
pressured to offer help to women who might otherwise abort. It may also be the
case that relaxation of standards about discussing sexuality has freed
infertile couples to adopt children who do not look like them, whereas in the
past most sought babies who could “pass’ as biologically related and allow them
to keep fertility problems private.
Joyce does not emphasize, but does refer to, abusive
treatment of some internationally-adopted children. (She is planning to attend
the trial of the parents whose treatment killed Hana Williams, an Ethiopian
adoptee, so there may be a book on this topic in the future). Although she
mentions some extremely large adoptive families, she says little about the
possibilities for neglect and exploitation of children in such large family
groups, or about the romanticization of large families by the press, where it’s
often suggested that huge families represent some sort of Golden Age of family
life and happiness. Another topic that I did not see mentioned was the outcome
of the practice of keeping together sibling groups of quite young children, with
whom it may be impossible for parents to have enough individual interaction for
good development.
Joyce has written about evangelicals and family life
in a past book, and I thought that in The
Child Catchers she might discuss how adoption may provide a socially-acceptable
outlet for the talents and energies of women who are not expected to work
outside the home. I did not see any comment on this point and was left
wondering what the author thought about it. I would have preferred that
discussion to the chapter on attitudes in Korea, which was of interest in
itself but did not tie in perfectly with the rest of the book.
So, what about Pentecost? The New Testament
describes the first celebration of this traditional festival as including the
descent of the Holy Spirit on the small number of early Christians and the
giving to them of spiritual gifts shown in their “speaking in tongues”. Most
mainstream Christians, and some evangelicals, consider this event to have
occurred at the time, but not to be a possibility today. (Secular humanists, of
course, consider it not to have happened at all, or at most to be a description
of events that had natural causes.) But some evangelicals, as well as a few
members of the liturgical churches, believe that the gifts of the Holy Spirit,
such as speaking in tongues, discernment of evil spirits, and deliverance (casting out of
evil spirits) are possible today, and as a result they refer to themselves as
Pentecostals. Like other evangelicals, Pentecostals have been involved in
international adoption, and Joyce references a few of them. She does not point
out, however, that Pentecostals may believe that adoption “attracts demons” and
makes it likely that an adopted child will need to be “delivered” (exorcised) in
order to be mentally and physically healthy. Demons are thought to be attracted
to the adopted child, not because of the adoption itself, but because of
offenses committed by the child’s biological parents and even grandparents, or
because of grief and distress felt by them or by the child. Deliverance of the
adopted child from indwelling demons may be a relatively gentle process, but it
may also be physically abusive. I look forward to Kathryn Joyce’s report about
the death of Hana Williams and hope it will show whether these Pentecostal
beliefs about adoption were a factor.
Here's a blog post about a catastrophe that's waiting to happen, I believe: a woman who does not want to be a mother agreeing to be a foster parent as a sacrifice to her husband in an act of "surrender." Sounds like Christian theology at work in this decision, eh? Only a very few of the comments on this post mention the uniquely Christian pressure placed on this woman. Personally, I can't think of anything worse happening to a child who has already been neglected/abused---to be placed in the home of a mother who will be the primary caretaker who does not want to parent and whose escape route is knowing that she can call DCF at any moment and say, "I'm done---come collect this child." Can you imagine the attachment therapists at work here? Breaks my heart ... Hope she reconsiders ... Or hope that someone reconsiders for her ...
ReplyDeletehttp://www.rageagainsttheminivan.com/2013/08/what-i-want-you-to-know-about-loosing.html
Well-- what I don't see is why she isn't allowing her husband the spiritual benefits of surrendering to HER. Isn't this rather selfish, to grab all the surrendering and obedience when it brings such happiness?
DeleteOh, I forgot. Surrendering is only good for women, because men are more like God than women are.
And of course the child will be least God-like of all, so he or she will have to surrender to everybody, or else-- or else they will call in therapists who specialize in getting compliance.