tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2743746633913926150.post6964974094535474114..comments2024-03-12T07:00:44.143-04:00Comments on CHILDMYTHS: Ordinary Child Abuse versus "Nancy Thomas Methods": What Investigators Should Know Jean Mercerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14619393019771381980noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2743746633913926150.post-50374718206084741312016-01-31T12:20:05.746-05:002016-01-31T12:20:05.746-05:00Of course you're right .... If the adapter is ...Of course you're right .... If the adapter is constantly hears only those methods (abuse) can tame these children and lead to good results if the adopter ........ will use these methods .But I expect that people have brains and an understanding of what is good but what is bad. Adults who want to educate orphans must have this understanding.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02216186566325024578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2743746633913926150.post-16099735212580868342016-01-31T12:09:24.670-05:002016-01-31T12:09:24.670-05:00These adoptive parents can see that the child obey...These adoptive parents can see that the child obey orders after such "treatment" They think that now can manage this child. This greatly simplifies the life of the adoptive parents. But .... it's a prison. This is not education. In the absence of total control by the adult ... a child heading has wild behavior and can make a bad thing because there is no restraining moral factors. Faith in God .... usually does not keep such children. I have not seen people who reformed in prison. Although at the time of stay in prison .... they have perfect behavior and say the right words. They say what wants to hear the warden.<br />This is not education ..... This deterrence. There's only two options. Or the eternal total control (prison). Either break through and completely deprive the will and initiative. Revive people do not see that the attachment therapists have not invented anything new? This old prison practices but investing therapists use these techniques to children. It's not fair. The identity of the child is in the process of formation and development. We must use every chance to send a child in the right direction<br />and wake it up the best feelings. Why people do not want to work on this? it's hard ...... but no more difficult than on a daily basis and continually monitor and discipline his child. In addition it drill is not interesting. Interaction with children can bring a lot of positive emotions in children and adults. A dull drill is not a pleasure to both parties and creates only mutual hatred.<br />Although ...... maybe some people feel proud when they see unquestioning subordination of children. Perhaps they feel that they are trainers who tamed tiger. It's low. In fact, any adult can break child and achieve obedience. Adults physically stronger than the children. But children grow up ....... can be retaliation .....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02216186566325024578noreply@blogger.com